I have learned a handful of lessons this Christmas Season.
The top three that come to mind are:
1) we will continue making good, meaningful memories.
2) When I don’t over decorate, then I’m more peaceful, and not itching to undecorate immediately the day after Christmas.
3 ) We don’t have to stop celebrating Christmas on December 25th. We can continue for as long as we like. In fact, many people celebrate until January 6th- Epiphany. I decided that is what I’m doing this year. ( Even though classes resume the 2nd.)
The first lesson is meaningful to me because I have been feeling excessively nostalgic. My oldest has his license, my second has his permit.
My second youngest is a freshman, my oldest will be a senior in the fall.
There are ongoing conversations about what it means to be a man, and why it’s easier to never try drugs in the first place rather than trying to overcome an addiction.
There are part time jobs and honest conversations about character traits, and plans about what the future might hold.
And while all this is good and wonderful and full of hope… I miss the little days. I miss being their whole world . I miss snuggles on the couch, and whispered secrets.
I miss them and they’re still all right here. This seems excessively ridiculous, and that is precisely why I’m sharing it.
And all this is to say, that in the very midst of being sad and nostalgic, we had a great time together. Looking at lights, playing games, just talking and drinking coffee.
I realized that this might have been the best Christmas yet.
And I also said this last year.
And the year before that.
So, then by my own admission- each and every Christmas is the best ever.
Meaning that just maybe, we are still living the “good old days”, right now.
Maybe even though I feel sad that my kids are growing up, I can acknowledge that we’re still making great memories right now.
This is a necessary and valuable thing to remember.
My second lesson is pretty self evident. By choosing to decorate three main places , I am not “tired of” Christmas decor by December 26th.
My third lesson ties into the first two.
We’ve had some great times of celebrating this Christmas season. We also have had a lot of hosting , volunteering, and projects.
I don’t feel like I’m finished celebrating Christmas, so.. I’m going to keep going.
The tree is staying up. I’ll still be lighting the red candles, and playing calm, contemplative a Christmas carols.
And I have a big Christmas party to host this weekend with family from out of town.
I’m not finished with that trappings of Christmas, because at the end of the day, there is a deeper reason to all of this.
This isn’t where I trot out the tired “He is the Reason for the Season.”
He is. And most of us acknowledge that.
But He is also the motivation for the season.
And this year in particular, He had given me so much.
He has worked miracles in my home, my children, my marriage, my finances, my church …
He worked year-round miracles . Miracles of hope and healing, “far as the curse is found.”
“Repeat the sounding joy”, indeed!
I’m not finished Christmas-ing because I’m not done contemplating all He has done for me.
And I can’t help but want to help others find the peace that He has brought me as well.
On a more practical note, Will I be pulling my hair out when I’m back in the thick of homeschooling and running children places and still have to take down my tree on January 6th? Only time will tell. 😉
Your turn! What have you learned this Christmas season? Funny or serious , sentimental or sacred or none of the above. Feel free to comment below, or if you’re more comfortable with journaling about it, then I would like to encourage you to take a few moments to do so.